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[originallutece]

is that a motherfucking homestuck reference in the year of our lord 2018

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[mofi]

can u help me
with this dom thing?

[originallutece]

In what fashion?

[mofi]

idk
what else do i need to know beside dancing?

[originallutece]

Are you asking me to teach you how to be a dominant, or to fuck you, or some other third hypothetical?

1/2

[mofi]

wow
ros little vulgar
but no im not asking to fuck u
need help being a dom

2/2

[mofi]

would u even fuck me?

[originallutece]

You get one question at a time.

What bits are you having difficulty with, exactly?

[mofi]

u can multitask
this contract stuff
clothes
dom etiquette
whatever else u can help with

[originallutece]

[Ohh boy.]

Dominance, from what I've experienced, isn't about clothing. It isn't about strength, or height, or anything like that. Just pure force of will, and how you handle an encounter.

Do you have self-confidence?

[mofi]

everyone has some right?

[originallutece]

That's assuredly not an answer to my question.

[mofi]

u going to answer my other question?
and sure i have some
[ A minuscule amount of self confidence. ]

[originallutece]

I don't see why I should.

Can you impose that confidence upon others? Bend them to your will?

[mofi]

u could be building up my self confidence

im good at being manipulative when i have to be.

[originallutece]

I'm not saying so I can teach you self-confidence, Murphy-- and even if I was, fucking you would never be a part of it. I don't spread my legs out of pity.

But confidence is key. Knowing without a shadow of a doubt and projecting that confidence is how you dominate a person. Order them, and do so in such a way that their disobedience simply doesn't seem an option. And if they try to disobey, you scold them. A little pain is fine, but anything more than that is pure fetish.

[mofi]

u coulda just not answered but thanks.

and that's the part i cant do. im not going to actually dominate over a submissive.

[originallutece]

Try to attract me and perhaps I'll fuck you. But you have to work for it, I'm afraid.

"Can't" as in you have no interest in learning?

[mofi]

im not trying to fuck u ros
i mean i dont want to
i kind of have to do this

[originallutece]

Yes, I suppose you do.

It sounds like you're more asking me how to have power over another. In which case, what I'd suggest is simple: treat them like you might a servant. Set them tasks, simple but necessary, and in return take care of them, supplying them with both what they need and what they want.

[mofi]

what are necessary tasks???
what do u make ur sub do?

[originallutece]

One question mark is all that's necessary.

Assist me in the laboratory. Run minor errands. Cook me meals. Things like that.

[mofi]

the two others were for my perplexed face that u cant see.

so u just fell into this pretty quick huh and what makes you a good dom???
where do we draw the line???
???

[originallutece]

Don't abuse them. Don't force them into anything sexual. Don't fool yourself into thinking that just because you were randomly sorted into a position of power means that you're somehow better than them, or can get away with treating them as inferior.

[mofi]

isnt abuse pretty fuckin subjective ros
im not trying to pretend im better than anyone else

[originallutece]

Is there a specific answer you're looking for, Murphy? Do tell me, so I can simply parrot it back to you and save us both time.